I’m starting a new series, and kind of reframing another one I have to combine with this one, because it’s not like I don’t have enough but it’s called, The Soft Girl Survival Guide, because honestly sometimes, life is loud, chaotic, and aggressively uncozy, and someone needs to document how we’re surviving it with iced…
Killer Heels Saturdays: Publishing – Traditional vs. Indie- Which Runway Do You Walk? Part 1
The Publishing Runway: What You’re Actually Signing Up For Alright babe, grab your iced coffee and your delusional writer confidence, because today we’re stepping onto the publishing runway. This is where dreams sparkle, timelines drag, and every writer is secretly wondering if they’re about to be discovered or ignored like a clearance rack sundress. This…
The Feminine Urge to Be Mysterious… While Oversharing
The Duality Is My Love Language There’s a very specific feminine urge that nobody warns you about….the urge to be mysterious, while also telling everyone everything. I want to be an enigma, a whisper, a soft blur in the background but also, here’s my entire emotional thesis, my skincare routine, my childhood trauma, and a…
If Fall Were A Girl And My Toxic Fall Trait
I love fall and fall loves drama. I love her in a way that feels borderline delusional, like she’s a person I’m in a situationship with. There’s just something about her. She’s whimsical. She’s warm. She’s the season that makes me believe in soft beginnings and gentle plot twists. Fall is the girl who walks…
Killer Heels Saturdays: Book Fairs, Panels & Pop‑Ups & Hybrid Events Part 4: Selling Stories in Unexpected Places
There’s a special kind of thrill that hits when you’re standing in a boutique—surrounded by candles, velvet hangers, and a girl debating between two pairs of boots—and someone walks up to your table, picks up your book, and says: “Wait… what’s this?” Not because they came for a book. Not because they’re at a literary…
The Every Day Disney Villain Vol: 4–My Hades Era: The Burnt Out Girlboss
Welcome to the Underworld, Babes. Listen… if you’ve ever hit that point where your soul leaves your body at 3 PM, your coffee is doing nothing, and your patience is hanging by a single frayed thread, congratulations. You’ve officially entered your Hades Era. This is the era where you’re sarcastic, caffeinated, and absolutely done, but…
Lupus And The Etiquette of Having an Invisible Illness
Welcome to My Invisible Illness Finishing School If you’ve ever lived with lupus, you know one universal truth…..people say wild things. Not malicious things just like things that make you blink slowly like a cat processing disappointment. So today, I present to you a chic, Coco coded guide to Invisible Illness Etiquette….a playful little manners…
Killer Heels Saturdays: Book Fairs, Panels & Pop Ups Where Writers Actually Network And How To Show Up, Stand Out, And Connect In Real Life Part 3
Book Clubs: Where Readers Become Evangelists There’s a very specific kind of chaos that happens when your book lands in a book club. Suddenly, a group of strangers is sitting in a living room or a Zoom room, holding your story in their hands like a tiny emotional grenade. They’re arguing about your characters. They’re…
Always In Her Own Head: Why I Rehearse Conversations That Will Never Happen
Welcome back to The Girl Who’s Always in Her Own Head, where my brain is the director, producer, lead actress, and unhinged scriptwriter of conversations that will never ever happen. If you’ve ever caught yourself practicing a speech in the shower for a confrontation you’ll never have or rehearsing a witty comeback for a text…
ADHD Society: The Why Did I Walk In Here Saga
A Tragicomedy About Working Memory, Side Quests, And Sudden Amnesia Let’s begin with a universal ADHD experience. You stand up with purpose. You rise from your chair like a majestic creature who has finally remembered something important. You walk into another room with confidence, determination, and the energy of someone who is about to accomplish…
